This is your survival pattern, not your identity.

And it’s why your marriage feels like an emotional minefield even though “nothing is technically wrong.”

Let’s break it down:

You silence your needs to avoid conflict.
You over-give to feel worthy.
You call it “being the bigger person” but inside, you're crumbling.

You likely:

• Apologize even when you're the one hurting

• Prioritize peace over truth until resentment explodes

• Fantasize about running away... but stay because "he’s not a bad guy"

You’ve been trained to believe “less of me = more love” but that equation is bankrupt.

Nervous System Truth Bomb:

Your body learned that being agreeable = being safe.
But emotional safety isn't built on self-erasure, it's built on expression without punishment.

Your calm isn't calm. It's collapse with mascara.

What This Pattern Is Costing You:

• Your ability to be honest in your marriage

• Your presence in motherhood

• Your own sense of identity as a woman

Why This Isn't Just Psychology, It's Neurology

Your subconscious is working overtime to protect you from a threat that doesn’t exist anymore.

The part of you that learned to be small is still running your relationship and that’s exactly what The Awareness Shift™ Workbook will help you rewrite.

 💌 Your next step:

Ready to meet the part of you that doesn’t perform for love anymore?

⬇️ Click below to download The Awareness Shift™ Workbook
📥 Or DM me "Rewrite" @squeezeoflife to start your shift

This isn’t about fixing your marriage.
It’s about reclaiming you, and from that place, everything changes.